Friday, February 01, 2013

Trust you? Again? No thanks

If someone hurts you once, don't be sorry for yourself. You're not at fault. They are. You just didn't know that they were the wrong people to trust. You can be nice enough to forgive them but don't be stupid enough to trust them again. And if someone manages to hurt you twice, then don't blame that person. Blame yourself. You're at fault because this time, you knew. 
When you give someone a second chance after they have hurt you once, it doesn't means that you will start trusting them again. It only means that you're giving them a chance to earn your trust again. Its weird how many people don't understand this. They trust people who they know are a trouble. Its like walking into fire with eyes wide open. Why do that? I get it that its hard to accept that someone who was watching your back just stabbed it but you have to move on. You have to be brave enough to walk away and not look behind no matter how tempted you are. And please don't give someone a second chance just because you want to be polite. Trust me, those people will put you through hell. Think again. After what they've done, do they deserve another chance to break your heart? No, they don't. So when they say "I'm sorry and please trust me this one last time again" then snap and say "Trust you? Again? No thanks!".

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